woman~~*

Its hard to choose if we already put a standard to what we want. For an example, we want an attire that we want to wear on our friend's wedding, the colour should be like that, the size should perfectly suit our body, the pattern should have some bling2 so that the cloth did not look too plain, less attractive...and at the end, we left all the store without getting any, just empty hand with shaking leg cos too much energy had been consume for that piece of cloth..#apapontakbley.

It same goes with shoes and handbag. For me, for shoes i really like wedges style and bak kata my housemate when she look for shoes at display rak at any shoes' stores and when she see any wedges shoes, she will say..'babe, dats yr style'..haha~~* Dats true indeed..:))~~* I really love wedges shoes. The truth why i love wedges style because *please keep it as a secret* i ni katik, so i need a little addition of height so that i will look taller (addition of a few inch with that shoes will make my height become 150cm ++) and it can boost my confident hookeyy...haha~~*

Its hard became a women when it come to cloth, shoes and handbag. A women can spend almost a day, non-stop searching for what she really want, and about a month looking for the thing that she really desire.

Thats women

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and for man

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no complain please

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because

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thats the beauty of us

Footnotes shoes n hndbag : I really2 need new shoes and handbag right now! Tu jer nk ckp sbnrnya. Ada sapa2 nk blnja x? Muahaha~~*

I will survive...~~~**

 

I will survive till the end...
In shaa Allah.....~~**

verangan mOod = off

Salam Jumaat fellas..

Just wanna share something that I think its very useful for every single lady like me (owh yea) who always verangan about fairy tale story in marriage life....hrummm...

Copied from IIUM Online - Madam. Fauziah Mohd Noor.

Assalamualaikum dan salam Ramadhan.
Dua semester lepas, seorang pelajar saya (perempuan), pernah mengirimkan sms kepada saya, "Madam, terima kasih di atas segala2nya. Betapa saya ingin memeluk madam seperti memeluk ibu saya, tapi saya malu." Saya membalas sms dia, " Tak pe..insyaAllah, masih ada peluang utk kita berjumpa semester depan. Dan kalau jumpa nanti, peluklah saya kalau awak nak."

Semalam
Dia datang datang ke ofis saya, dengan wajah suram dan inai masih dijari.Belum sempat berbual panjang, dia memeluk saya dengan erat dan disulam dengan tangisan. basah bahu saya dengan airmatanya. Saya bertanya, "Kenapa? awak sepatutnya gembira sebab baru saja bernikah dengan pilihan hati awak." Dalam sedu dia menjawab, "Madam, saya nak bercerai, saya dah tak boleh nak teruskan hidup dengan dia. Dia sangat berbeza dgn dia yang saya kenal sewaktu bercinta dulu"

Astaghfirullah...hancur luluh hati saya waktu itu bagai kaca terhempas ke batu. Tak perlulahsaya sebut kenapa dan mengapa dia hendak bercerai ketika inai masih di jari. Saya cuma ingin menasihati pelajar2 saya, dan rakan2 FB saya yang masih muda, ingatlah pernikahan bukannya trial and error. Pernikahan bukannya ujian amali atau ujian praktikal. Janganlah hanya kerana kawan2 kamu telah bertunang, maka kamu rasa kamu juga perlu bertunang. janganlah hanya kerana kawan2 kamu telah bernikah, maka kamu rasa kamu juga perlu bernikah. Pernikahan adalah sesuatu yang sangat suci dan ianya memerlukan pengertian, pengorbanan dan kesabaran. Kesabaran bukan bertahan utk seminggu dua atau sebulan atau setahun. tapi kesabaran itu perlu utk membuktikan kamu beriman kepada Allah dan RasulNYA.

Kepada pelajar2 yg telah bernikah di usia muda dan masih belajar, saya merayu kepada kamu semua hari ini...tolong jangan terlalu dipaparkan kemesraan kamu di facebook. jangan terlalu menunjukkan kesronokan bernikah di facebook. saya mohon dengan setulus hati saya. tolong kurangkan posting2 romantik kamu di FB. Saya tidak mahu lebih ramai pelajar yang merasakan seronoknya bernikah.Tapi mereka lupa bahawa di sebalik keseronokan pernikahan itu dipenuhi dengan tanggungjawab yg amat berat.

Dan bukan semua orang bernasib baik mendapat pasangan hidup yang baik. Jadi, cukup2lah kamu berposting tenatng bulan madu kamu, hentikan dialog2 romantik kamu di FB, ucapan sayang dan cinta itu simpan utk tatapan kamu dan pasangan kamu saja.TOLONGLAH....saya merayu daripada kamu. Dan kepada pelajar2 yg masih berfikir tentang bakal suami atau isteri, berjumpalah dengan mereka yg lebih arif tentang hidup. Mintalah pendapat mereka tentang mencari pasangan hidup. Ingatlah anak2ku, adik2ku..pernikahan bukan satu percubaan, tapi satu tanggungjawab yang amat berat. Saya tidak sanggup melihat kamu menangis...tidak sanggup sebab saya sangat sayangkan kamu. jaga diri kamu baik2.

#kopipesjer

Notakaki rumahtakbertangga : Such an eye opener kan?? Tersedar daku dari tamparan reality...mood verangan automatically off..xmau jadi cmni cik liya, kena prepare diri betol-betol...there is no such thing as fairy tale story in real life....uhuuuu~~~*

isteri seorang mujahid...~~*

I'm dreaming of it! seriously! That was after I read a novel tittle Jaja & Din. How proud will I feel if my husband left me because of his will battling for his religion, people and his country...

but..

seeing the recent reality incident that happened at Semporna, Sabah...looking at the person's face who had been left by the people that she loved, it touched my heart. How sad it was. Everytime I watched the news that showed the scenario that happened there at Sabah and the persons who had dead due to the incursion by the intruders, if I at the wifey shoes, can really accept it with the whole of my heart? Can I really redha if my husband left me because of his duty of our country? Why out of millions people  in this country he is the one??

ajal, maut di tangan Allah...

true...from Him we came and for Him also we will return. That warriors had left us with that way, that means Allah really really love them. For the wifey and the families, my deep condolence for them. Easy to talk rather than face it yourself right? From the bottom of my heart, I felt so proud with our warriors and for the wifey, you also need to felt proud menjadi isteri seorang mujahid and I still want to become one of you bidadari dunia! Although it hard to accept had been left eternally but just remind this, everything happened for a reason. You and him will meet again there in a beautiful way..insyaAllah..

Semoga roh mereka yang telah pergi ditempatkan bersama orang yang beriman...al-Fatihah..

my honeymoon dream's destination...~~*

its Korea!!
i really2 want going there! with my love one definetely! nama pon hnymoon kan? mood brangan di sini..haha~~*

lake in the winter...pretty right?:))~~*

falling in love with the scenery there during winter and i wnt going there during that season too! just looking some pictures of my friend during her honeymoon's trip there, how jealous i'm...huu~~* i wnt going there too! (sambil hentak2 kaki..haha~~*)

here some picture that i've google which make my heart flutter everytime i see it (flutter la sgt mcm tgk gmbr boyfren plak kan..:p)

folk village surrounded by snow..awesome!

natural scenery of mountain in Korea

honestly the reason why i really eager want to feel the extremely cold tempreture during winter season there because i had been influenced by korean's drama that i've watched for this past few years..haha~~* ia tlh brjya mmpengaruhi jiwaku..:p~~* i wnt to wear that winter jacket, i wnt to feel how it feel when smoke came from my mouth when i talking, i want to wear boot walking on the snow also! bygkn jer pon dh buat hti brbunga2..:p~~* how i wish this wish will come true....:))~~*

footnotes korea: when talking about hnymoon and korea its remind me of someone. i ever asked him that i wanna going there for our hnymoon (konon2nya lah) and he replied 'lebih baik g mekah my buat umrah lg afdal..' erkkkk...insaf seketika..huu~~*